Don't "Move On" Without The Lord

Whenever you try to handle all the idea of a new past/new reality on your own, you leave God out. Whenever you think about the future, or about going back, or going about forward, think about God. Think about how God can fit into your plans. Think about how God can work through you in the in your new past or new reality. Getting caught up in your selfishness in trying to deal with these matters is easy. However, put God first. Whenever your mind starts going through various scenarios, place God in each of those pictures.